Romans 5:6

When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners.

Monday, August 6, 2018

New School Year: New Opportunities and New Beginnings


Tomorrow, students in our area will return to school for another year full of opportunities and new beginnings. Hallways and classrooms will be noisy as students trade stories of their summer happenings and faculty and staff help direct new students and guide returning students back into the rhythm of a routine.

Maybe your child is going to a new school for the first time, and as a parent you are almost overwhelmed with all of the emotions you are facing. Leaving your bright-eyed kindergartner in a big classroom full of possibilities will be, I’m sure, wonderful and difficult all at the same time. The same is true for the parent who will watch their high school student drive to school for the first time.

It’s a new year full of opportunities and new beginnings.

As a teacher’s wife, I can confidently report the resilient effort teachers invest in preparing for the first day of school.

In many ways, the anticipation of teachers regarding the first day of school outweighs that of every student entrusted to their care.

Teachers, you are super stars!

Your summer break has consisted of thinking of new classroom furniture configurations, purchasing countless supplies, and adding to your ever-growing to-do list.

As you gather plans for your first week’s lessons, you are unsure of what you will encounter. Even teachers-pay-teachers worksheets can’t always prepare you for the difficult circumstances your students will carry into your classroom.

Several of your students have a story of a hardship. They need someone to guide them. They need someone to stand up for them, to be a voice when others who should speak on their behalf remain silent.

Many students will rely on you for affirmation because they’ve never had a blessing or positive word spoken over them.

Some students will find peace being in your presence because their home life is always in turmoil. You have the chance to be consistent and show them, through your words and actions, that they have a trustworthy adult in their life.

Teachers, you are super stars!

Regardless of test scores and your school district’s lofty expectations of what you should be able to accomplish, know this:

You are more than a test score. You are a voice for those unable to speak for themselves.

You are more than your lesson plans. Your actions reveal to every individual student that they can make a difference and that they are worth your time.

You are more than your limited resources. You are creative and capable of making anything from Dollar Tree into something exquisite. You don’t allow limitations to cause anything to be neglected. You choose to invest in your students because they need to know that they are worth it.

You are more than (fill in the blank).

Being a professional educator isn’t always the most respected career.

But you didn’t choose to teach because you desired notoriety.

You chose to teach because you know the difference one positive influence can make.

You chose to teach because you want to make an abused child feel loved.

You chose to teach because you want to encourage the child who isn’t performing on grade level that they are able to overcome.

You chose to teach because you want to make the child who feels forgotten feel cherished.

You chose to teach because you desire to make the world a better place.

As you prepare to enter into another school year tomorrow, I am filled with great optimism and hope. My husband will be at a different school this year and I could not be more proud! By choosing to teach at our district’s “alternative school” I am excited about the stories he will share about small victories as our family has dinner each night. I am delighted to pray for his students as we learn about them and their circumstances. But I am most proud of his willingness to go where many would never consider going. I am excited about the investment he will make in the life of each of his students.

Teaching is no easy task. I pray your year is marked by great accomplishments in the lives of your students. But I also pray that you will have endurance and patience as you deal with students who don’t behave well, who talk constantly, and cause disruption.

The Lord has entrusted every student in your classroom to you. Though difficult at times, I pray you will choose to see the bigger picture and realize that your response to their actions will help mold their future.

Your job is never done. Your energy level is never full. But your call to teach is what keeps you going.

Teachers, you are more valuable than you know!

Tuesday, June 12, 2018

A Life of Legacy


 
One of the most influential people the world has ever known entered her eternal, Heavenly home late last night.

Many had the privilege of knowing Billie Kyle Cunningham as a friend, confidant, incredible cook, and prayer warrior. But I am one of nine individuals who had the honor of knowing her as their grandmother.

Mammaw Cunningham chose to leave her legacy through her every day living. For her, there was no need to wait until her earthly passing for everyone to know what she stood for, Who she believed in, and all she treasured.

Central to all of my memories of Mammaw is her unwaivering faith in Christ. She and Pappaw Cunningham were devoted to loving others in a way that honored the Lord and drew people into His presence. She was devoted to loving others above herself, always choosing sacrificial love rather than ever seeking to acquire worldly riches. Recently she and I joked about how wealthy I thought she and Pappaw were when I was a young girl. I assumed so because they were incredible givers. One of my favorite quotes, “If you are more fortunate than others, build a longer table, not a higher fence” fits Mammaw so well. She could make a pot of gumbo big enough to feed an army! Their home in Moss Point, MS had a revolving door anytime I was there to visit. Neighbors, friends, and kids from down the street all showed up unannounced for coffee, snacks, or just friendly conversation. And Mammaw never complained. She always perked another pot of coffee, prepared a snack and stopped what she was doing to invest in lives of those seeking her company.

Mammaw’s love for Pappaw ran deep, even after a couple decades of being a widow. Her love and ongoing devotion to him has allowed me to glean from great wisdom. Her commitment as a mother and grandmother has become one of the best influences in my life as I have navigated motherhood for only a few years. Though many miles separated us, she walked with me through the journey of infertility and miscarriage like no other family member could. She, too, endured a miscarriage during her first pregnancy. Her encouragement and her prayers for me in those difficult days were priceless.

Just one week ago, I was on the phone with Mammaw asking how she was feeling. Though she’d been diagnosed with cancer and was in hospice, she didn’t complain. All she’d say was, “The good Lord’s got me. No need to worry!” Always considering the feelings of others. So much so that even in her last days here on earth, she chose to send a birthday card to my oldest child. We received the card hours before she went to Heaven. She wanted to make sure that both of my girls received soemting for their birthdays this year. What a woman!

Though I will greatly miss talking to Mammaw – learning from her living legacy and reminiscing about our days together when I was younger – I know for certain that she met her Savior, Jesus Christ, face to face last night. Not to mention that there was some kind of reunion in Heaven when my Pappaw and aunt and uncle, who all passed on before her, were made aware of her arrival! What a homecoming!

1 Timothy 6:18-19
They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.